Why? What is the purpose of the special occasion?
- What's the purpose of the meeting, event, conference or ceremony?
- What are the demands and wishes regarding your special occasional speech topics?
- Are there special requirements related to the singularity of the event?
- What was the first thing that comes into your mind when you were invited?
- Are you invited because of your expertise or professional abilities?
- What do you know about the character and ambiance?
- Why did you accept the honor to be public speaker?
- What do you want your public to remember, consider, support or believe in? That's the special purpose of this public speaking assignment, your specific topic statement.
· Always analyze your audience. Who will be listening? Students, friends, teachers, parents, other interesting people?
· What public speaker you may be, do not choose any controversial or negative speech topic. Always carry a positive attitude and be happy to have the honor to deliver a talk.
· Even then it's possible to make a firm statement that the listeners will remember. Stay gentle and nice.
· Use ceremonial language but be yourself. Add two or three little personal notes in every topic.
· It makes you feel much more comfortable, and it helps you to overcome fear of public speaking if you completely draft your speech topics on note cards.
· This is not an examination. People expect a lot from you, but you don't have to take it too seriously.
· Make the talk something that people can laugh and go over after leaving the room or meeting place.
WEDDING SPEECH
Compliment the bride: you are looking beautiful, great or something like that. And do mean it!
Compliment the ones who made her dress; mothers, sisters, aunts.
If you are not the best man: thank the best man for his efforts.
Briefly describe your relationship to the bride and groom.
Why are you invited to speak at their wedding?
Why do you want to speak?
How did you meet them? Can you come up with a funny anecdote?
Tell them what they mean to you personally in your heart and mind.
Mention the special people in the couples' life.
Refer to joys of the meal in case you are an after dinner speaker.
What are milestones in the lives of the bride and the groom?
In what key events did you play a part?
What happened in history the day they were born?
What in history happened at this wedding day? Stay with nice things ...
Tell a funny anecdote about the run up to this wedding.
Look for funny speech topics about the groom or bride.
Tell a happy story of the bridal couple.
Visualize how they met for the first time.
Narrate how they have been introduced to the parents.
Mention and describe their common activities.
Describe their different characters, be nice and funny!
Express how happy everyone is.
Wish the bridal couple all the best.
Thank guests for attending.
A joke or quotation can serve as good closing statement.
End your wedding speech with a toast
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